Women in Meghalaya: Social Welfare and Environmental Advocacy

Meghalaya is often described as the rare corner of India where women inherit property, pass on the family name, and form the backbone of the household. Yet beneath this matrilineal reputation lies a more complicated reality. Women here are not simply beneficiaries of tradition; they are active organisers, reformers, and protestors. From running daycare centres for working mothers to standing against destructive coal and cement mining, and even questioning the limits of the matrilineal system itself, women’s collectives have become a powerful force for social change. This post explores how women in Meghalaya combine welfare work, environmental advocacy, and demands for social reform.

The matrilineal paradox
Women’s organisations and social welfare
Seng Teilang Ki Kynthei, Laban
Confederations of women’s groups
Women on the front lines of environmental advocacy
The damage from mining
Women’s groups versus mining companies
Reforming the matrilineal system itself
The men’s movement
The women’s reform argument
The lineage law controversy
Why this matters for democracy and development

The matrilineal paradox

To understand women’s activism in Meghalaya, you first need to understand the social system they operate within. The Khasi, Garo, and Jaintia tribes follow matrilineal descent, where lineage, inheritance, and family identity pass through the mother’s line. Among the Khasis, the youngest daughter, called the Khadduh, inherits the ancestral property and is expected to care for ageing parents and unmarried siblings.

This arrangement gives women a respected position rarely seen elsewhere in the country. Social activist and journalist Patricia Mukhim has noted that matriliny protects women from social stigma, since a child always carries the mother’s clan name regardless of the circumstances of birth, according to Al Jazeera.

But here lies the paradox. Owning property is not the same as controlling it. In practice, important family and clan decisions are often taken by male relatives, especially the maternal uncle, known as the Kni. Several studies on Khasi society point out that despite their inheritance rights, women remain largely outside formal political and clan-level decision-making structures. So while Meghalaya looks like a women’s paradise from the outside, the women themselves know the picture is far more layered. This gap between status and real power is exactly what drives much of their organising.

One of the most visible expressions of women’s collective strength is the network of Seng Kynthei, literally “women’s organisations,” that exist at the village and locality level across the Khasi and Jaintia Hills. These groups handle everything from local disputes and welfare to moral policing and community development. Over time, many have federated into larger bodies to coordinate their efforts and speak with a stronger voice.

Seng Teilang Ki Kynthei, Laban

A standout example is the women’s society in Laban, a locality in Shillong. According to The Shillong Times, this organisation was set up in November 1979, during a period of communal violence that had triggered economic instability and unemployment in the city. A group of women came together to rebuild stability through grassroots welfare work.

Their activities show how social welfare and women’s empowerment overlap in practice:

Vocational training: One of the group’s biggest achievements was establishing a Vocational Training Centre in 2002, which offers young women training in embroidery, tailoring, and knitting. The Shillong Times reports that the organisation’s core aim is to raise living standards, improve health, and strengthen the local economy through education and skills.

Crèche and childcare: Women’s societies in Laban also run crèche centres that provide day-care for the children of working mothers. This is not a small matter. Affordable childcare is what allows poorer women to take up jobs or training without leaving children unattended. It also connects to the wider National Crèche Scheme supported by the state’s Social Welfare Department, which funds day-care for children of working mothers in the community.

Support for poor students and the differently-abled: Many of these groups extend help to students from economically weak families through scholarships and supplies, and advocate for differently-abled persons so they can access government schemes and gain social acceptance. The state government also channels grant-in-aid to a range of women’s NGOs through schemes recorded by the Social Welfare Department.

Confederations of women’s groups

Individual localities are strong, but collective action across the state has been even more effective. Women’s groups have come together in larger coalitions to tackle issues that no single locality can address alone. For instance, village and locality women’s organisations from across the Khasi and Jaintia Hills have formed a state-wide coalition to combat human trafficking, as reported by SP News Agency. Trafficking is a serious concern in the region, and bodies like the Impulse NGO Network, founded by activist Hasina Kharbhih, have worked extensively on it.

Women on the front lines of environmental advocacy

Perhaps the most striking role women’s organisations play is in defending land and the environment. Meghalaya’s hills are rich in coal, limestone, and uranium, and decades of extraction have left deep scars. Because women in these communities are often responsible for collecting water and managing family health, they are usually the first to feel the consequences of pollution and the first to resist.

The damage from mining

Unregulated coal mining, especially the dangerous rat-hole mining method in the Jaintia Hills, has turned rivers acidic and rendered farmland infertile. The practice was so hazardous that the National Green Tribunal banned coal mining in the state in 2014, after the method had claimed dozens of lives. Down To Earth reports that the ban was later lifted by the Supreme Court in 2019, and the state has since moved towards what it calls “scientific” mining, a shift that environmental activists continue to challenge.

Women’s groups versus mining companies

Women’s collectives have repeatedly placed themselves between corporations and their land. When a cement company sought to set up a plant in the Nongkhlieh area, the local women’s organisation joined the opposition. Reporting from the archive on Meghalaya mining records the Seng Kynthei president warning that fertile cultivated land and paddy fields would be destroyed and people severely affected if the plant came up.

A similar pattern appeared with uranium. When a controversial uranium mining project was proposed in the West Khasi Hills, local women’s organisations were among the groups that launched campaigns against it, citing serious health hazards, as documented in records on uranium mining in Meghalaya. These struggles show that women’s activism is not limited to “soft” welfare issues. It directly confronts powerful economic and political interests over the future of land, water, and public health.

Reforming the matrilineal system itself

One of the most fascinating debates in Meghalaya is happening within the matrilineal system, and women are on multiple sides of it. The conversation involves two very different pressures: men who feel disadvantaged, and women who argue that matriliny does not automatically deliver gender equality.

The men’s movement

A section of Khasi men, organised under a group called the Syngkhong Rympei Thymmai (SRT), argues that the matrilineal system disadvantages them by excluding them from inheritance and pushing them to live in their wives’ homes. They have pushed for a shift towards patrilineal customs. However, many in Khasi society dismiss this as the grievance of a small urban group rather than a widespread demand, a view reflected in the Al Jazeera coverage of the issue.

The women’s reform argument

On the other side, several women’s rights activists make a different point. They argue that inheriting property has not translated into genuine decision-making power, and that the system needs reform to give women full control over their inheritance and life choices, not just nominal ownership. For them, real gender equality means closing the gap between holding property and actually governing it.

The lineage law controversy

These tensions came to a head over the Khasi Social Custom of Lineage Act and its proposed amendments. The Khasi Hills Autonomous District Council moved to strip Khasi status and tribal benefits from women who marry non-Khasi men, along with their children. Women’s rights advocates strongly opposed this. Hasina Kharbhih described it as an attempt to cage women and harass those seen with non-tribal partners, an encroachment on the fundamental right to choose a life partner, as reported by The New Humanitarian.

The legal questions are still alive. A petition before the Meghalaya High Court argues that denying Scheduled Tribe certificates based on a person’s surname violates the constitutional rights to equality and dignity under Articles 14 and 21. Supporters of the law counter that it protects the cultural integrity of the tribe and prevents misuse of tribal benefits. This is the heart of the debate: how to balance the protection of indigenous custom with individual constitutional rights and gender justice.

Why this matters for democracy and development

Women’s movements in Meghalaya offer an important lesson. A society can give women high social status and still leave gaps in real power, safety, and choice. The women’s organisations here do not wait for the state to fix these gaps. They run crèches and training centres, support poor students, defend rivers and farmland from mining, fight trafficking, and debate the very customs that define their identity.

Their work also challenges a common assumption that matrilineal automatically means gender-equal. Activists themselves are the first to point out that it does not. In doing so, they keep the conversation about gender justice honest, rooted in lived experience rather than romanticised tradition. This blend of welfare delivery, environmental defence, and reform advocacy makes Meghalaya’s women’s movements a compelling case study in grassroots democracy.

What do you think? Does holding property and lineage rights truly empower women if decision-making still rests largely with male relatives? And when an indigenous custom and individual constitutional rights pull in opposite directions, how should a democracy decide which one prevails?

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Table of Contents

The matrilineal paradox 🔗

Women’s organisations and social welfare 🔗

Seng Teilang Ki Kynthei, Laban 🔗

Confederations of women’s groups 🔗

Women on the front lines of environmental advocacy 🔗

The damage from mining 🔗

Women’s groups versus mining companies 🔗

Reforming the matrilineal system itself 🔗

The men’s movement 🔗

The women’s reform argument 🔗

The lineage law controversy 🔗

Why this matters for democracy and development 🔗